I won’t lie, there’s some heavy stuff going on in my head lately. But beyond that, there’s some things, little and big, that just have to get done. So the heavy stuff is moving slowly so that life in all of its forms can keep moving on at the pace of the earth’s rotation… and Halloween is upon us!
I’ll preface this entry by saying that I LOVE Halloween. I’m sure it has all sorts of religious/spiritual/historical/cultural connotations, but I’m blissfully unaware of them and while they may have to do with why you like Halloween, they have nothing to do with it for me (sorry).
I love dressing up. Not the “let’s all put on make up and high heels” kind of dress up (oh dear God I dug a giant hole in the ground for fun as a child, I did not play dress up), but the kind of dress up where you can be anything, anyone that you want to be. Last year I was Harry Potter, a couple years ago I was Nick Stokes from CSI, once I played a crazed serial killer in a haunted house for Halloween, in high school I was a wizard and a cowgirl, as a child I was: a Musketeer, a blue M&M, a beaver, a green and yellow dinosaur complete with a tail as large as I was (thanks mom!), a dalmatian, and a bunny. I always chose costumes where there was at least one aspect that I really liked about the thing that I was becoming.
For example, blue M&Ms are my favorite. And the bunny costume allowed me to wear this SWEET plastic nose. Being Harry Potter was a great excuse to dye my hair dark and get away with looking 16 years old. So this year, I yet again am getting away with looking 16 years old as a nerdy boy scout.
I was never in the scouts, I did a church variation on the scouts and whenever I thought about joining the girl scouts I realized that what I really wanted to do was make a pinewood derby car and join the boy scouts because they did cooler stuff. I’m not going to be actually doing any scout stuff for Halloween, other than wearing the costume- but I’m getting a great deal of enjoyment from even pretending that my life took that turn. While it obviously turned out just fine for me at this point, it’s nice to take a step back and grab another experience. It’s funny, because at this point, passing isn’t even something that crosses my mind. Sure, I wear clothes that I can layer and hide my chest, but beyond that I am comfortably masculine and there’s nothing else to it. Being a boy scout only feels like an act because I wasn’t a scout, not because of my gender.
Here’s another Halloween, another chance for me to temporarily branch out to something that I think is awesome without significantly altering my life otherwise. Oh, and have a bit of fun with it. The faiapgirlfriend is dressing up as a girl scout, and it’s going to be really hot. 🙂 Sometimes, we are just the cutest thing ever.