Every so often, I get surprised by something. It’s not that I’m not expecting really random things to happen to me… because let’s face it, that’s one of the things I love about life… but really, random stuff happens to me that doesn’t always make a ton of sense.
This morning I finally had the surgery consult with surgeon #2, Dr. Buckley. I’m honestly so overwhelmed with the stuff going on in my life right now that I have no idea what I think about the surgeon/what surgeon I would like to use when my insurance eventually approves me/how I’m going to be maneuvering with insurance next…. but I have a funny story.
The 1st nurse I saw and I had a fun time navigating the conversation to her finally getting that I am xx-chromosomed.
“What are you here for?”
“Chest reconstruction surgery.”
“Oh. Was it an accident?”
“Nope.”
“Defect?”
“Yeah.”
“Is it congenital?”
“I suppose you could say that.”
“Is there any pain associated with it?”
“Not really, just from binding.”
…This went on and on for quite some time, until she got to the “what medications are you currently taking” portion of the interview, when I explained that I’m on 50mg of testosterone cypionate a week. She was shocked that I injected it myself, and I honestly have no idea if she ever really got that I have a mixed physiology.
And now onto nurse #2. She interacted with the nurse #1 for a brief moment, during which they both referred to me as he and Drew. Nurse #2 sat down with me and explained the photograph policy (photographs taken for use in education/presentations), and at the end, (are you ready for this, I almost lol-ed in her face)… she asked if I was there for breast implants.
Ok, now that I’m done laughing (for the 4th time about this) I have to say that despite the fact that these 2 nurse’s complete ignorance of transgendered people’s existence… the fact that this person thought that I had been born male and didn’t have (mother-freaking-huge-breasts-that-I-bind-every-freaking-day) a non-flat chest was pretty awesome.
In case anyone is wondering- I’m still binding with 2 underworks 997’s at a time, and it’s working out well.